hello, wow where to start...ok i have a 24 year old daughter. we put her through collage and she receive a degree in business and has a job...i am going to try to make this short. her boyfriend just went to jail for ten years...so she moved back home about 6 months ago..her bf let his car with her..so she could get back and forth to work..sense she blew her motor in her car. well the family came by and took the car away..so we have been driving here to work everyday.. well for the last six months sense she has been back home...she has not lifted a hand to help out.. now she wants to drive the spare car..uggg..i believe she has not done anything to help her cause...my wife always gives in ...which does not help...i always feel like the bad person here...someone that lives in her pj all weekend long and does not try to improve ur life..now its coming between my wife and me. do we now just give in to our kids lazy ways???? help.. i wasent raised that way. thank you so much mike in cali